Creator-based® Choices

You can choose- always.

It was a rough morning.  This is what I heard as I listened to my inner dialogue

I woke up tired. Complained.

There was a glitch with the bills. Worried.

My schedule changed unexpectedly. Felt taken for granted.

More work piled up. Felt a lack of control.

My back hurt. Worried about it escalating and having to stop and not accomplish all that “needs” to be done today.

I was forgotten by someone I love. I was ANGRY!

After a nice lunch and some thought, I realized…       I didn’t want to feel any of it.

With each step, I resisted the feeling. Resistance makes everything worse.

At any point, I can change my thinking, allow life to unfold, and accept what comes.

Clearly, some days are better than others.  Permission to be human, my friend. I like this scenario better:

I woke up tired.  Choice: Spent 3 minutes in loving-kindness meditation for an extra energy boost.

I had a glitch in the bills and chose gratitude for seeing it.  Choice:  “I trust.”

My schedule changed. Choice: “I wonder what good thing my Creator was bringing in place of my finite plans?”

More work came in. Choice: “I am valuable. I am blessed to provide a needed service.”

Received an unkind comment.  Choice: That shows me what they’re thinking, “I choose to love them anyway.”

It’s not about me. It’s about love and choice. At any point in our day, we can choose back into satisfying, contented thoughts and Create Happiness.

All my love,

Beth

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Who am I writing for?

I write for every overwhelmed, discouraged, faith-challenged woman out there. I know your goodness and your capacity.

Why should you care?Because you were made for so much more! Stop playing small and embrace your true potential.

What do I want you to do here? I would love it if you kept reading, responding, and growing.

If you struggle, click here to get help.

Nobody has to suffer! We are here to help.

Come, create peace, confidence, and hope, the Creator-based® Way.

Are you a dedicated woman of faith who sometimes feels she’s just not good enough? We can help in a big way! We have a five-level membership program so you can have as much or as little as you want and need.  Each level includes all the perks of the levels under it.

Would you like to simply feel better, have a safe space to meet, and a place to learn and progress? Join us for Coach n Clear(this level includes access to the 50/50 Girl Club)

Do you have a deeper interest in the Creator-based® Way and want to work on specific issues?  Join our Guided Mastermind.  (this level also includes the 50/50 Girl Club and unlimited access to Coach n Clear sessions)

Would you like to do a deep dive into our Creator-based Library and enjoy all the benefits of Coach n Clear and Mastermind AND have all the tools from our amazing Learning Center? Subscribe to our All Access Pass.

Would you like to become a Creator-based® Coach and change the world? Contact me here for more information and an application: Beth@CMHCoaching.com. This prestigious 18-month program begins in January of 2024.

Creator-based® Consciousness

Are You a Woman Without?

You may be familiar with the Bible story told of a poor widow bringing her offering to the temple.  It was such a small amount, a mite. It was not even enough to buy her bread and cheese for a single meal.  Would it really make any difference? Yet she was commended because “She of her want cast in all she hath.” Her society had defined her as a ‘woman without.’  She was a woman without a husband, but was she truly a woman without anything?  

Do you sometimes define yourself as a ‘woman without’?

Women without- women without a job, women without children, women without the coolest phone, without the great friend group, without a fantastic purpose, without a marriage, without money…. without without without…. It’s definitely not the perfect life you wanted, is it?

What would it look like to change your conception of yourself to ‘a woman with’?

Another way to look at the widow who cast in all she had was a widow with.  She was a woman with trust, a woman with faith, a woman with such an abundant mind that she could see the amazing things coming for her as well as all she had already.

That one makes me smile.  

See yourself as your Creator sees you.  See yourself as a woman who has such an abundance of love, such an abundance of generosity, such an abundance of trust, and faith that you can give all, every minute of the day….and know that you will be filled in unlimited ways.

Why? Because as you listen to and learn from your Creator, together you are creating the life that’s just right for you.

Because you know you can create alongside Him the life you really want to have.

The life of a “Woman With.”

I am a woman with a keen mind.  I am a woman with gifts and talents.  I am a woman with the drive to change and improve.  I am a woman with love.  I am a woman with good fortune.  I am a woman with friends.  I am a woman with support wherever I go.  I am a woman with abundant love, that is loved.  I am a woman with a mindful life.  I am a woman with hope.

Find a place in your life that you feel ‘without’

Go into the quiet of your mind and heart, settle into your chair, and take a deep heart-filling breath.

Let out all the tension and fear you have gathered today as you inhale and exhale three times.

Now, on the special stage of your mind, bring up an image of the thing you feel without.

Invite your Creator to help you see how you are really a “woman with”.

Sit quietly, breathe, and open your heart to Him.

Let the image come of the way you, the “woman with,” and are abundantly full and blessed.

Truly, you are a “woman with”

all my love,

Beth

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Who am I writing for?

I write for every overwhelmed, discouraged, faith-challenged woman out there. I know your goodness and your capacity.

Why should you care?Because you were made for so much more! Stop playing small and embrace your true potential.

What do I want you to do here? I would love it if you kept reading, responding, and growing.

If you struggle, click here to get help.

Nobody has to suffer! We are here to help.

Come, create peace, confidence, and hope, the Creator-based® Way.

Are you a dedicated woman of faith who sometimes feels she’s just not good enough? We can help in a big way! We have a five-level membership program so you can have as much or as little as you want and need.  Each level includes all the perks of the levels under it.

Would you like to simply feel better, have a safe space to meet, and a place to learn and progress? Join us for Coach n Clear(this level includes access to the 50/50 Girl Club)

Do you have a deeper interest in the Creator-based® Way and want to work on specific issues?  Join our Guided Mastermind.  (this level also includes the 50/50 Girl Club and unlimited access to Coach n Clear sessions)

Would you like to do a deep dive into our Creator-based Library and enjoy all the benefits of Coach n Clear and Mastermind AND have all the tools from our amazing Learning Center? Subscribe to our All Access Pass.

Would you like to become a Creator-based® Coach and change the world? Contact me here for more information and an application: Beth@CMHCoaching.com. This prestigious 18-month program begins in September of 2024.

Did you know?

We are forming guided mastermind groups for the winter quarter.  The people who join will be matched into groups that are similar in 3 ways.  Your group members will have a similar challenge to you, a similar goal and similar circumstances.  Sessions are held with two coaches twice a month, at a time that is convenient for your group.

Our goal in Creator-based® Coaching is to train and give you the tools, while you build relationships within your mastermind that help you as a group to outgrow your coach. You can continue as a group of friends helping and supporting one another.

Interested? Check it out here: CMHCoaching.com/signup

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