Creator-based® Calamity
Oh my gosh! I made a mistake and it’s a calamity! Did you see last week’s post? The word ‘because’ was where the word ‘becoming’ should have been! Eeeeeeeek! It made no sense and looked so bad!
The things I send out should be perfect right? Wrong. I’m not perfect. You’re not perfect. Why would what I write be perfect?
A Creator-based® life is a whole new way to view (and make) mistakes.
Mistakes can be our safety/pressure release valve. Have you ever been so crazy busy and frazzled that you make dumb mistakes? That happens to me all the time. I get all up in my head and start to stress. Then I goof up.
When I goof up I generally have two options- berate myself & admit defeat, or forgive in love and move forward.
Could there be a third option? What if I saw that mistake as an opportunity to notice the speed at which I was moving, take a breath, and choose to restore my focus?
What if I chose to immediately focus on the mistake, deeply and singularly seeing it and then, course correct? What if I stayed in that loving place and was grateful for the mistake that brought me back to the present?
Seriously, a mistake is a gift. It’s the perfect time to breathe, accept, and move forward on a better, singular path, a little more slowly and probably more sanely.
So, are mistakes catastrophic? Not usually. Usually, they are a sweet reminder of our humanness, and a call to slow down a little, refocus, and be grateful.
Could you be grateful for that misspelled word or that fender bender? Even when it’s crazy and public? Maybe. Try it and see.
Here are the steps:
- Recognize the Mistake
- Grant yourself permission to be human
- Recognize you were unfocused
- Be grateful for the reminder
- Become present, refocus (fix the mistake)and move forward again
Backward law #3 Slowing down allows us to do more.
That’s how we live a Creator-based® life, embracing one mistake at a time and creating something better from it.
Have an amazing week y’all!
Beth
CMH Coaching for Life
Did you know?
We are forming guided mastermind groups for the winter quarter. The people who join will be matched into groups that are similar in 3 ways. Your group members will have a similar challenge to you, a similar goal and similar circumstances. Sessions are held with two coaches twice a month, at a time that is convenient for your group.
Our goal in Creator-based® Coaching is to train and give you the tools, while you build relationships within your mastermind that help you as a group to outgrow your coach. You can continue as a group of friends helping and supporting one another.
Interested? Check it out here: CMHCoaching.com/signup